zondag 31 maart 2013

Excerpt from my next book. (Coming soon.)

The awakening

The awakening is a process that can be initiated on earth or in the spirit world. You can see it as a process where one dares to question himself. The awakening is to recognize and grasp one of the Truths. Anyone who has searched, found and recognized the truth about a particular topic is an enlightened or awakened soul in that area.
  The truth is and remains the truth, even when we don't think it is. Therefore it is so important to search for it. When you dare to question yourself, all your rules and values will ​​suddenly get a whole different meaning. You will find many things are not what you thought they were, because you have provided them the necessary labels yourself, labels that have nothing to do with reality.

  Many of our own made labels, are coloured and therefore not objective. They are like that, because we have copied them from our parents, friends or from society. It is by making all those labels and rules, we remove ourselves from the truth.
  The awakening has to do with removing all labels and rules that we have created or copied ourselves. Hence the importance to dare to question yourself and to realise you are indeed putting labels on everything, because otherwise you are keeping yourself from ever discovering the truth.
  When you label the concept of prayer or meditation as 'wrong', it will keep you from doing it! Right? In other words, when you label searching for the (Divine) Love as 'wrong', because of associations you made in the past, it will keep you from finding out the truth about the Love. And so it is with all things we stick our personal labels on.
Let's, for example, look at the fact whether there is life after death or not. Someone who labels it as 'crap', will not want to assume he is dead, after he died. Why? Because, for too many people, it is still more important to be 'right' than to recognize the truth. It's not nice to look in the mirror and come to the conclusion that what you believed in for many years turns out not to be 'correct' after all. That (ego) is why so many people cling to their own made labels and to the past.
  If one would recognize it is not so important to be 'right', but that it's more important to get to know the truth, one would also realize it would make them so much happier. So those who cling to old habits, labels and rules, and don't investigate whether they are 'correct' or not, can never discover the truth. You cannot bend the truth, it's just there. Just like you can't stop the earth from spinning, it just does.
  There comes a day when everybody will be confronted with themselves. No one can ever escape from it. This confrontation is based on our memories which are part of our soul. Once in the spirit world our soul will be visible for all and you cannot pretend anymore to be who you are not.
  But even there, people still have free will to keep on using their own made labels, even if they do not correspond to the truth. The longer a person continues to hold on to his own made labels, the longer his journey to happiness and joy will last. To awaken - or grow spiritually - one must learn to let go. If you do not learn to do so, you will keep yourself from becoming happy.

dinsdag 19 maart 2013

I have had some questions that I would like to share with you. (As well as the answer.)

Q: Do you know if there is a certain amount of time that needs to pass after death to reach spirithood? Is it pretty instant? Do these stories of people heading down a tunnel to a light an actual occurrence? Is that just an individual experience?

A:I don't know what you exactly mean with 'reaching spirithood' but I can tell you that alot of people don't even understand they are dead when they die. They keep wandering the earth as if they were still alive. So if that's what you are referring to I can only say there is no certain amount of time needed. Some people know exactly what is happening when they die and move on. Some just don't have a clue and linger on for several years before they come to the conclusion their earthly life is over.
The tunnel of light is indeed an actual occurence. First of all leaving your body consciously can give you that tunnel effect. Ask anybody who had an out of body experience. Secondly, the white light at the end of such a tunnel is actually the energy/love of a very high evolved spirit that manifests itself so you can see it (or some of your relatives) so you feel at ease. But it is indeed an individual experience, since not everybody leaves his/her body conciously, e.g. with a brutal accident.

zondag 17 maart 2013

The only person standing in your way to happiness is your ego. Get rid of it!
Learn what makes you smile and see what makes you cry.
Then, be honest with yourself and focus on what makes you smile and try to let go of what makes you cry.

Love, Werner.

vrijdag 8 maart 2013

I know there are a lot of bad things in this world, but don't waist your time focussing on them.
Try to look for the positive things in your life, your surroundings, your world and your negative feelings will vanish. Try to control your thoughts because they are the source of your (un)happiness.

Think about it. When do negative emotions come up? After thinking negative things!
So stop yourself and say "No. I will not go down this road again!' and start thinking about positive things.

You can change. You have the power!
Is it hard? Yes. Change always is.
But that doesn't mean it's not doable. Persevere and everything you want will be yours!

Love, Werner.

donderdag 7 maart 2013

dinsdag 5 maart 2013

Here is another excerpt. Enjoy and leave a comment if you wish.

‘Pépé told me you are a psychic. Is that correct?’

She smiled. ‘It is.’

‘Maybe this is a dumb question,’ I asked a bit embarrassed. ‘But what exactly does that mean?’

‘That I can perceive things which other people cannot perceive,’ she answered rather vaguely.

‘So, what are the kinds of things you can perceive?’ I asked. ‘I’m having a hard time understanding this. After all, anybody can claim to see things others can’t see.’

‘That’s right,’ she said calmly. ‘Which is why it is hard for genuine mediums to establish themselves. Many people who claim to see or know things, don’t know or see anything at all. And it’s partly because of people like that, that few people still believe in life after death. On the other hand, people themselves are to blame just as much. The only reason they’re going to see a psychic is to know how their relationship is doing, or when they will enter a relationship, or whether they’ll become rich.’

I couldn’t disagree with her.

‘It’s not because some people take advantage that way, that all psychics want to take advantage,’ I admitted. ‘But what exactly do you perceive?’

‘Well, in my case, it’s people and images.’

‘So how does that work?’ I asked with growing curiosity.

‘It’s hard to explain, but let me try my best to do so... To me, it’s as if a slide or a movie is projected in front of me. Sometimes the images are faint, and sometimes they’re crystal clear. It’s as if whatever is being projected appears on a thick curtain of white smoke. The quality of the imagery varies, depending on the thickness of the smoke, if I can put it that way.’

‘So what makes it that hard to explain?’

‘Look,’ Paula said as she positioned herself on the corner of the desk. ‘If I was to ask you to describe your holidays in Spain, you could give me an impression of what you saw or experienced. But the only thing I can do is imagine what you’re saying. I can try and breathe life into what you’re describing by using imagery that I am familiar with. But that doesn’t mean that what I imagine actually corresponds to what you’ve seen or experienced in real life, as I only have my own experiences to rely on. If I ever were to go there, and get to see the actual place, it could look completely different from what I had imagined. The reason for that is that I had never actually seen it, and would have compared it to something I had. Do you understand what I’m saying?’

I nodded.

‘Now, the things you are asking questions about, are things that find their origins in other dimensions. In other words, these are things that very few people have actually seen for themselves. Now, sticking to the analogy I’ve just given, you can maybe understand why it is hard for me to explain. The fact that it involves another dimension, and there is nothing in this dimension that compares to it, makes it even harder.’

I had to acknowledge that it made sense.

‘Then how is it possible for you to see things, and not for me?’ I asked.

‘Have you ever heard of the “third eye”?’ she asked.

‘I’ve heard of it,’ I grinned, ‘but I’ve never seen it.’

‘I won’t bother you with all kinds of theories on chakras. The only thing you must be aware of is that psychics have learned to work with those chakras, or portals. A psychic can activate chakras, which then opens a portal to another dimension. You don’t see that dimension with your regular eyes, but with your third eye.’

‘Does everybody have a third eye?’

‘Everybody does!’

‘And could anybody learn to activate it?’


‘So if everybody would learn to activate their third eye, everybody would be able to perceive that other dimension?’

‘That’s right.’

‘So why don’t people do so?’

‘Because they don’t believe they can; or because they don’t make the time; or because they’re too impatient and want instant results. At the same time, there are risks involved.’

‘What do you mean?’

She brooded upon her reply. ‘Did you ever hear of “like attracts like”?’

I nodded.

‘Well... Imagine you’re the kind of person who has perverted thoughts, but manages to suppress them. If you were to use your third eye, not knowing that when you have perverted thoughts, you attract spirits with the same thoughts, you might be in for the shock of your life when you gaze upon the images that are presented to you at such time. It wouldn’t be the first time somebody ended up institutionalized like that.’

‘You mean there are people in mental health wards because they’ve experimented too much or in the wrong way with these kinds of things?’

‘You’d be surprised how many crazy people are not really crazy, but instead are possessed by somebody – somebody who may or may not have bad intentions,’ she replied.

I burst out laughing. ‘I can’t believe that. As if a spirit could take over another person? Surely you don’t believe that?’